Dr Damasio’s research sounds interesting. I wonder if “emotional damage” in the decision making part of the brain can be caused by emotional trauma, like verbal abuse or the loss of a child, or if it only occurs as a result of some physical injury. My thinking is that psychological damage to that area, thereby affecting decision making process, might partially explain why battered spouses are often unable to leave.
I agree that emotional damage is battering as well. Absolutely. Psychological damage can be even more insidious as there are no bruises or scars, right? But it's so damaging. I had an acquaintance who was told she would never amount to anything (by her father) all the time. She struggled to make decisions and never saw her value.
Not finished reading, but real quick, my inner editor needs to say last paragraph under “Discernment”; expansive, not expensive. Absolutely adore your writing. So terribly sorry about what happened with Paul. 🌹
Dr Damasio’s research sounds interesting. I wonder if “emotional damage” in the decision making part of the brain can be caused by emotional trauma, like verbal abuse or the loss of a child, or if it only occurs as a result of some physical injury. My thinking is that psychological damage to that area, thereby affecting decision making process, might partially explain why battered spouses are often unable to leave.
PS Although “battered” probably implies physical damage. It may be better stated to say “psychologically abused” spouses.
I agree that emotional damage is battering as well. Absolutely. Psychological damage can be even more insidious as there are no bruises or scars, right? But it's so damaging. I had an acquaintance who was told she would never amount to anything (by her father) all the time. She struggled to make decisions and never saw her value.
😭 Oh my gosh. The swelling in my heart right now is palpable. Thank you 🙏
Not finished reading, but real quick, my inner editor needs to say last paragraph under “Discernment”; expansive, not expensive. Absolutely adore your writing. So terribly sorry about what happened with Paul. 🌹
Thank you for catching that typo. And thank you for your continued encouragement and support!